Walk of life

 Remembering Vasant Kaka........ Vasant Kaka, my favorite Maushi....Surekha Maushi 's husband...... Vasant Kaka was CA. He knew all the Articles by number and word to word..he would rattle. Just like a Doctor rattling drugs and syndromes.  Perfect.  He was Man of great tastes. Best food,cars,Suits, Literature, Music,Theatre,Travel. He used to love having people around him. Vasant Kaka was the one who taught me fine dining, etiquette of fine dining.  Vasant Kaka taught importance of fitness and protocol based lifestyle. He used to give example of the great politician Shri Sharad Powar saheb.  Discipline, sincerity to work,Passion towards Profession was what he stressed when myself and Priya were taken out for grand luncheon.  He has always been very proud of my education performance and encouraged me to give my best.  Ganya and Pinkya....he called Priya and me. He came all the way from Pune to Hubli for my engagement, 1st month wedding anniversary, my first work place ( SDM dental c

 Boundary is a real or imaginary line ,limit or fixation.  In Ramayana,Laxman drew a boundary to Sita forbidding her to cross over. But circumstances created by the wicked Raavana forced her to cross over and we all know the turn of events which followed.  In our real life, since childhood elders draw a Laxman Rekha to PROTECT us.In School,to DISCIPLINE us.In workplace later to PROTOCOLISE us. The Boundary becomes an integral element in our lives and system. Some created by Society while some built by ourselves around us. Healthy boundaries provide a nurturing and safe physical,emotional,sexual and spiritual environment for individuals.  But unhealthy boundaries curb,hinder,restrict us.They make us feel miserable, incomplete,disrespected,insecure.They are manipulating, conflicting and compromising.Such boundaries need to be crossed,broken and unshaved.In short ABONDONED. During childhood, in order to protect us and discipline us,certain rules and regulations are meted which chains us.