Walk of life

  Why me,Ma? As Anaesthesiologist, I work in all fields of Medicine. Some cases melt you emotionally. Paediatric patients are very emotional. In my years of experience, personally ,I have found Paediatric group easy and difficult both. Difficult for Anaesthesia. But easy to deal with as the Paediatric age groups have more pain threshold and resilience compared to adult. A Cancer advanced stages child comes for Scans Sedation is required because the child is in excruciating pain..... A child suffering from debilitating disease which is hereditary. The other child born is healthy..... The eyes of the suffering child ask .." Why me?" The child who is working hard,sincerely ,with lots of efforts, for any exam or difficult situation in life ....at any age..... if fails to make the mark..and in disappointment asks" Why me,Ma? This question just leaves a Parent helpless....flabbergasted . A helpless situation where no solutions nor answers can be found. Parenting is...

  In the " REAL" World. I had been to a condolence meeting of a Senior Doctor. So many people had gathered there to pay their last respects. It was overwhelming to see that the Senior Doctor had touched so many lives....and that day was the proof of his Good Work throughout his life. I went to offer condolences to his son...." Sir earned lot of Good will by his enormous benevolent work." His son replied" That's what he earned only in his whole life.Only Good Will.No money." What is important in our Life? Today,our young generation is immersed in Digital media and Artificial Intelligence. They are more involved and connected to ' Reel" and " Virtual media. They have lakhs of Followers who 👍 Like them on Instagram and X. They communicate majority of their day on Social platforms with unknown strangers. But in Real world.... They remain aloof and secluded from surrounding and society. Absolute no interaction nor communication. ...

  Farewells. Sunday,while cleaning the house for Ugadhi festival, I found the steel trunk which had been with me throughout my hostel life. I brought it along with me after marriage to Hubli. This steel trunk brought back Nostalgia. It has fond memories of my school,Junior college and Medical days. Some random pictures of faces forgotten. But what was interesting most.... The Farewell Slam Books... Slam book we friends wrote for each other on Farewell Day.... The last day of that education period..... 10th Standard 12th Standard MBBS.... Housemanship Postgraduation...... Farewell Day.... A very emotional day. Mixed feelings. A feeling of Pride and Happiness in completing a Milestone of our Life. A feeling of Apprehension ...thinking about future...what happens next. A feeling of Excitement....for starting another new phase of Life. Most important feeling is.... Sadness of parting with friends with whom we shared a great bond for years. Friends with whom we gre...

  The Real Test of Life. I have given many competitive enterance exams, prepared for various exams almost till few years ago in my life. Initially I felt my boards were tough,then came pre medical.....till I faced the toughest in my academic career....my Final year MBBS exams as it had many subjects and exams went on for 2 months. But I feel academic exams are easiest as what you read to prepare for the exams ...actually comes in the exam. Parenting is in my opinion the incredibly toughest and real exam one gives as an individual. This exam has no curriculum nor syllabus. Though guide books are aplenty and many people feel authoritative on Parenting...... Only when one becomes a Parent.....each child is different and each day a different challenge. With each growing year of the child,New issues and new situations arise each moment. Each generation comes with its own challenges of Parenting. When in initial years,feeding and nurturing needs solutions..... Toddlers come wit...

  International Women 's Day. March 8. Every year,the social media, WhatsApp, TV channels,Print media, Advertisements....Today even Amul Ad was on Women..... So many events, programs celebrating Women Empowerment, Role of Women in Society, sacrifices.... Multitasking role..... Today for next 24hrs,even the most misogynist Society will be lauding the Women around. But,tomorrow, goes back to where we have been the day before. Yes.I agree,more girls are getting education. More women are seen in workforce.Infact,the ground job staff ,cleaning staff,front desk staff.....most clerical staff is seeing Women outnumbering the men. Society is changing. Mindsets, but,remain unchanged. It's fine,when a woman is managing her household responsibilities, nurturing and Caring well and then goes out for work. As long as her work brings income to the household and does not interfere in her domestic responsibilities as a Wife,Mother,Daughter in law..... She is " ALLOWED" / ...

 When the umbilical chord gets cut..... I had just got engaged.  My parents, myself and my fiancé went to Alibaug for a picnic. When I was getting off the jetty,2 hands got extended to offer help for me to get down.  But my eyes saw only one. The hand of the new person who had just entered my life. I overlooked completely that old hand which had carried me since the day I was born.The hand which held me when I learned to put my first steps. The hand which had guided me throughout and which supported me during my most vulnerable situations.....till today. I found confidence today in that hand which had just entered my life a few days ago. I accompanied my close friend to visit her newly married son. The son who she had given birth,nurtured and till yesterday was dependent totally upon her. Today,the new member who recently had got added into the family, was talking about the likes and dislikes of the Man who was once Son of my friend.  Her son once never liked Bitterg...