How do you define Love

 Define " Love"......


I asked Chat GPT to define Love.
I got 1000 definitions.
Summarize them.....

Love is strong feeling for someone/ something.....
A feeling in strongest possible way.

Feelings of intense liking ....
This feeling is expressed in words or verses or songs.
Expressed by gifts.
Expressed through flowers.

Is Love defined well only through communication?

Love is defined when.....
A child runs to mother and hugs her.
A mother wipes child's tears with saree pallu.
2 friends spend hours on roadside tea kiosk exchanging endless conversation over a cup of tea.
A boy and girl  just looking into each other's eyes for long hours not uttering a single word.
A couple exhausted completely after a long tiring day,sitting on the sofa just holding each other's hands and blankly staring into space.
A Parent offering shoulder to child in most vulnerable situations.
A mother calling up Grown child and asking" Have you eaten?" While He/ She is held up in work.
A Grown up Adult calling up Aged Parent " Have you taken your medicine today?"
An elderly woman shuffling into kitchen to prepare Tea for husband.

A soldier losing life protecting Motherland.

A teacher helping a struggling student.

An employer supporting the  staff even if company is in crisis.

Love doesn't need expression through words like " I love you.".... or any gift....or communication.

Simple gestures show depth of love.

Simple acts in our daily routine life define Love for one another.

Love never demands nor does it command.

Love never forces sacrifice....nor wants anyone to compromise.

Love never expects nor Desires.

Love needs no submission nor Aggression. 

Love allows a person to grow .Love never represses other person. Love never dominates nor abuses nor insults nor belittles.

Love sees no Ego nor Vanity. 

Love only trusts and respects.

Love is acceptance unconditionally.

Only if we learn to Love Self....only then are we capable of giving that same Love to someone else. 

If we all understand true definition of Love....
Life would be without conflict.

- Dr Tripti Milind Galgali.
Hubli.

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