BOUNDARIES: IN MY MIND

 Boundary is a real or imaginary line ,limit or fixation. 

In Ramayana,Laxman drew a boundary to Sita forbidding her to cross over.

But circumstances created by the wicked Raavana forced her to cross over and we all know the turn of events which followed. 

In our real life, since childhood elders draw a Laxman Rekha to PROTECT us.In School,to DISCIPLINE us.In workplace later to PROTOCOLISE us.

The Boundary becomes an integral element in our lives and system. Some created by Society while some built by ourselves around us.

Healthy boundaries provide a nurturing and safe physical,emotional,sexual and spiritual environment for individuals. 

But unhealthy boundaries curb,hinder,restrict us.They make us feel miserable, incomplete,disrespected,insecure.They are manipulating, conflicting and compromising.Such boundaries need to be crossed,broken and unshaved.In short ABONDONED.

During childhood, in order to protect us and discipline us,certain rules and regulations are meted which chains us.

We need to differentiate the healthy from the unhealthy boundaries.

Allow the child to explore, learn,reciprocate,adventure, discover challenges.Motivate new thought processes.Allow the child to develop own identity and enjoy the thrill of life and living. 

The process of adulthood faces rejection, disappointment and failures. These unhealthy experiences force us to build an imaginary Boundary which hinders us to face new challenges. 

Do not be a prisoner of your past. Be a Pioneer of the future.

Accept Failure as a lesson and not as a Life sentence.

Open up your mind to new opportunities. Unchained yourself from the bandage of your thoughts and thinking.

By Mid life to old age,our life reaches a plateau.Either satisfaction or responsibilities curbs our thoughts or desires .Fear of failure or loss compels us to make our mental boundaries stronger.

At this juncture,one needs to relax certain mental restrictions, Allow oneself to take a calculated risk. Explore new ventures, be open to fresh ideas.Create new visions.Welcome fresh upcoming ventures wholeheartedly. Focus on better society and promising future.

Remember dear friends, some people in our society had the courage to break all boundaries and be limitless in their outlook to life.They overcame all their fears and failures. They are the reason for advanced technology, modernisation and upliftment of society. 

It is our duty to set ourselves free and teah our kids to be limitless if we wish a promising future and a healthy society. 

A dynamic society needs challenges and fresh ideas.Break free off all shackles with an open mind. 

SET YOURSELF FREE,LET YOUR SOUL ARISE AND PROCLAIM........

I AM NO LONGER SUBJECT TO THE FEARFUL RUMINATIONS OF MY MIND.