Is Kind kinda Stupid

STUPID 

Yes heard this word oft about me.

During Post graduation period, many colleagues would come with pleading voices asking for help....financial, emotional support and most times for extra night shifts replacement. As a result I would be doing 72 hours continuous Operation theatre work without break.At month end I would be exhausted both physically and financially. 

And even more hurt when these Smart alecks would term me STUPID and Gullible. An Emotional fool who could be easily manipulated by their cooked up emotional stories.

Did I learn anything from this?

Did I change my nature?

NO.

Even in Adulthood, I have been called an Emotional Fool for helping Smart people....doing free Anaesthesia cases,going out of my way and out of my means helping people. 

Today do I teach my kids not to be Kind?

Not help people?

Not to be generous?

I teach my kids to be Genuine.

The generation has people driven by Ego,Arrogance, Status,Power,Money.

They feel they are smart to manipulate everything and anything for their personal gains.

Result...good souls get ruined daily.

I maynot leave behind me materialistic inheritance. 

But am sure,I will leave behind a legacy of good values,kindness ,good will,warm wishes and loads of love for my future generations .

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Silent Mentors

Silent Mentors. Mentor is a person whom you look upto in life.You follow that person's life journey, get inspired and motivated to do something similar. As kids,we all were taught to dollop great leaders Mahatma Gandhiji, Subhashchandra Bose.....Spiritual leaders like Sant Ramdas,Sant Dyaneshwar( me being from Maharashtra),..... Philanthropist like Jyotiba Phule,Savitribai Phule....and Shivaji Maharaj,the Great. In recent years,the trends have changed.The Gen Z is motivated by Bill Gates,Shah Rukh Khan and Deepika Padukone. I don't intend to demean or belittle their success and hard work.....absolutely not. Times have changed.Priorities have changed with needs of the century. This blog has no intention of preaching or advocating anything or anyone. Today's blog is about simple people I have met in my life ....from childhood to today....whose simplicity towards life per se has inspired and motivated me to be a better person every day. In my previous blogs, I have wri
Read more

Prodigal Love

Prodigal Love. Parenthood is beautiful and challenging. The thoughts in this blog are my personal views.I am not an expert.Dear Friends, you may not agree to my views. When our child enters this world....as a Parent, we all want to give our kid the best of everything. We want to protect our kid from every single thing which will harm him / her. The difficulties or obstacles we faced ....the hurdles we crossed in our life journey......our Parental Love towards our kid doesn't want our kid to ever go through them ever. This Prodigal Love ...... I term it as " Prodigal "....... In Mahabharata, Dhritarashtra was blind.....a metaphor. The love for his son Duryodhan....made King Dhritarashtra turn a blind eye to all the unethical conducts especially the Dice game and Disrobing insult of Draupadi..... Duryodhan was wrong. But Prodigal Love by the" blind" King Dhritarashtra towards his son Duryodhan.....refused to correct the wrong doings his erred son commit
Read more

How much......is too much?????

  How much ....is Too much????? I happened to visit my Paediatrician friend. An IAS officer brought her 2 month baby for check up.The baby was crying while passing urine.Urine tests and culture showed no infection. The concerned Mother showed a methodically maintained book on number of times the 2 month was breastfed,pooped, burped,passed motion,flatulence..body temperature..etc etc....We were surprised by minute details noted every moment of the newborn by the apprehensive but diligent new Mom. Now we come to the part .....How much....is too much???? To maintain asepsis....the overtly careful mom.....had wiped the private parts of the baby ...each time it passed urine or motion.....with concentrated hospital Savalon antiseptic solution...... This resulted in inflammation of the baby's soft mucosa over private parts.....making every passing of urine agonizing and burning....... Today,we have Apps and gadgets....Technology and information.....which help us monitor and modify ou
Read more