I am Mamata

 I am Mamata.....

I am Nurturer

I am Woman......

Since childhood, every girl is imbibed into herself.....that nature has given her the inborn Gift to Love,To Nurture.

Nurturing comes naturally into us Women......

To care....with love and affection. 

To care for parents....After Marriage, to care for husband and inlaws.....

After Motherhood,.....caring for kids.....

I due course of time,we take our Role as Nurturer so so seriously.......

That all our existence and purpose of existence becomes Nurturing  .........

Our personal idividuality,.....

Our personal space.....

Individual Thought process.....

Our passions.....

Career.....Hobbies.......

All get either Deleted.... Erased.....or given Back seat.......

Especially Motherhood is given Priority No.1.......

Even if we do pursue a career,a passion,a hobby....which demand some percentage of our personal space......is done with a tinge of guilt.

This Guilt of being selfish is more in percentage in Highly skilled, Highly educated and Affluent class.....

There is high percentage of Dropout in workforce in Corporates and amongst Ladies at Demanding and Top Levels of Work force.

The sense of frustration, guilt,depression, work pressure,......balancing family and careers......this percentage is high in Highly qualified, competitive work force Ladies .....

As compared to lesser privileged,low strata,less educated.....work force....

The Lesser priviliged class gives more respect and almost zero guilt for long working hours.....in Women.....as they are tuned to the fact...." The Woman being major or at times sole bread winners in family".... Hence each other family members...Kids,husband, inlaws all pitch in to support the Working Woman.

But in Affluent, Highly educated class.....most women working long hours ...are driven by guilt of being selfish in pursuing their careers and neglecting their duty as Mother,Wife,Daughter......as a Nurturer.

Dear Woman,

Totally Agree.....Nature has indeed bestowed us with natural gift of Nurturing......

But remember that is only " A Part" of you.....not " The Part".......

Your life as a Woman.....has other aspects too 

Your passions,your thoughts,your hobbies......they too are Integral and equally important part of your life.

Don't overlook this point. 

Especially Motherhood.....we Women get so sucked and succumbed into it.....we forget that one day ..our kid is bound to grow independent and spread wings to fly off....for building a separate life and world for oneself......

We Women, after this phase....are left clueless and helpless.....undecided what do we do further.....but in some becoming too late to gather back an individual entity.......

Do devote ,dear,Woman, some time ,some space for yourself too.

Pursue some passion, some career,some thought process.....to develop your own self identity and esteem.

I am Mamata....Iam Nurturer ......

I am beyond a Vagina....a Urerus....a Caregiver......

I am a Woman.....

Every Woman must realize....we die alone as oneself  .....no relationship comes with us at the last phase of life.....

So do develop yourself too   ...