Walk of life

 In every Father....there is a Hitler!!!! I heard a male cousin remark.... when his wife commented that he was strict and reserved with their son. I wasn't married that time. Most Fathers I had seen were reserved,didn't interact much with their kids and were busy as sole financial provider of the Family. A mother 's Love and Sacrifice for the kid and Family is more emotive. Mother spends more time with kid at home. Her love is seen openly while she nurtures,cares,cooks favorite dish,wipes tears by end of saree pallu,.....multiple acts of love. Mother  is more vocal about her feelings to the child. Mother is the Extrovert amongst the Parents. Father remains " The Hitler ".  Strict,authoritative,disciplinarian.  Few words....mostly as reprimand. Most Fathers are less emotive about their feelings.  But......a Father loves and cares about the child equally....as much as the Mother. It's only when the child grows into a mature Adult does he understand the love of t...

  Mama,I miss you! A post by a working mother sent me Deja Vu. She had promised her 7yr son that evening they would do some craft activity together. But her office work extended and she came home late. She tried to compensate her absence by buying a gift for him.Though the child didn't speak anything, but his eyes expressed hurt.....as if asking " Am I not important for you?" As a busy freelance private practicing Anaesthesiologist, my work did keep me away from home for extended hours. I did have help from husband, inlaws,parents and caretakers. They took good care of my both children. Yet.....my 7yr old came to me one day" Mama,I miss you. I feel it's been days I haven't seen you. " The guilt of every working woman. Time spent with loved ones...especially the children when they are vulnerable age. Inspite of having so many people shower them love and attention.....my little one still missed me. This post doesn't judge working women. This...

 Stories of Anaesthesia  Every day,each patient teaches Life Lessons.  As Anaesthesiologist, I see patient in their most vulnerable situations.  Paediatric patients are not aware of the complexity of the disease they are suffering especially if it is a chronic disease like Cancer,Autoimmune disease. It's the Parent who plays a very important role in calming the child during the procedures and treatment. The child can be irritable or adamant or fussy . An 8 yr old girl was having cough ,loss of appetite and loss of weight for a long duration.  She was on multiple treatment and had been consulting many Doctors in many Metros.  For her every scan,she visited the Scan Centre I am Anaesthesiologist.  Initially, the child out of Ignorance, cooperated for Anaesthesia.  But later,the multiple hospital stays,prolonged treatment  and weakness made the little girl irritable and adamant. The accompanying mother used all possible methods to coax the child...

  Trends of Love. Youth always gets influenced by Cinema. With Generations, Cinema has evolved. Love depicted change. Youth too changed with respect to Love. 60s Love- Heartbroken and Jilted. Cinema showed a girl and a boy fall in love.Societal barrier between rich and poor,Caste,Religion forced them to separate . They had to marry someone else. Ever pining for each other 's Love. Jab DiL Hi Toot Gaya .. Ab Jeeke Kya Karenge Hum Intezaar Karenge... Khuda Karein Ke Qayamat Ho... Aur Tu Aaye.. 80s Rebellious Love. The Disco generation got the girl and boy fall in love The Societal barriers of Rich / Poor,Caste,Religion,Power, Position did separate them The Rebellious lovers fought against the whole Society. They professed undying love openly. Eloped and got married.... But some even killed self for Love..... Hum Dono...Do Premi ....Duniya Chod Chale... Duniya ki ,Hum ,Saari Rusmein Tod Chale. Hum Tum Dono  Jab mil jaayenge... Ek Naya Itihaas Banayenge.... ...

 Education- Door to Resources. I watched 2 podcasts. One had a Billiinaire who left his Tier 3 city in India after losing every thing in business.His mother sold her jewelry and gave him Rs 50,000 to go to Dubai.He worked hard and started a business in Dubai.He is amongst the wealthiest in world. He regretted only one thing....He couldn't get enough Education because of his low resources in India. Another Podcast had a Billionaire from Europe.  His father was a simple carpenter who encouraged his children to pursue good education. His father worked hard to see all children go to college and get Degree. Education is very important.  Those with low resources,under privileged background know the real strength of Education.  Education is the only way which can open the doors to opportunities in life. Education is the only way towards resources . When I was in medical college, so many girls who came from grassroots and conservative background, knew the value of the MBBS...

 Life and T20. Currently IPL matches are going on. Occasionally when I return home after a long tiring day, do sit with my husband and watch some match. I am not a cricket fan. No idea about the famous trending cricket players....except some talked about a lot on social media.  I watched a few minutes off and on yesterday's match between Gujrat Titans and Rajasthan Royals. RR had 15yr old protegee Vaibhav Sooryavanshi hitting hard.6 s and 4s. But he was lucky to have the opponent drop catches twice....and finally successful at 96.... Poor boy was utterly disappointed.  GT had a big target at 215. Most times I have seen,when a high target is set.....the opposite team in a T20,limited overs match....starts to hit big. Every ball is aimed for a 6. But GT had opening batsman Shubhman Gill.He looked so calm and composed. He played calculated. Absolute no risky shots which would get him caught. A flat 4.....or single runs each ball. No brisk 2s in between wickets which had ris...