Walk of life

 MY POSTAL ADDRESS. My Postal Address is  HUBLI ( A Tier 3 city of Karnataka. ) KARNATAKA  INDIA....( A Developing Country) On any International or even National Forum....I don't have a glamorous nor popular postal address. Indra Nooyi on a Forum spoke...as a Woman CEO ,she would never have made it to this position had she been in a Tier 3 country India. US had the Technology and Meritocracy.India lacks all these aspects to mentor a CEO. For generations, our youth has been taught at home and teaching institutions, that India is not conducive for growth and professional satisfaction for Talent and Intellect. Every student who comes out of Degree College is advised to migrate to Metro cities....Mumbai or Delhi ....who make opportunities accessible and available for better life.  Then...... Is it necessary for a Postal Address to end with..... A Metropolitan City.... And ..... A Developed Country..... To achieve success and lead a Better Life??????? I had attended a Con...

 If my Morning Cup got a voice...... I am a Cup...made of Ceramic.  I am taken out only early mornings. Ah! It's a great feeling!!!! I watch hot boiling water poured over coffee granules into the Filter. After couple of hours......I get the aroma of hot filter coffee .....and me getting completely drenched in it. She takes a sip.... And starts doing some work..... Then comes back.....another sip. The doorbell rings......she disappears. Then comes back.....lifts me and just gulps all the coffee.....cleans me....and off I go back to my cabinet. Somedays......the piping hot coffee inside me keep waiting....she gets a ring on her mobile and she rushes off ..The coffee and me......we keep getting cold......and colder when I enter the refrigerator.  Sundays....or occasionally I get a new friend....Masala Chai..... Sometimes we  both are lucky.....when she sits quietly with the newspaper and sips slowly.  It's more fun,when we get a 3rd friend whom we rarely get to mee...

 1 year of Internship.. MBBS results out. College sends notice to report after 1 week for Internship. As an Intern,I now become a part of Hospital.  In my time,Medical Doctors wore scrubs only in Operation Theatre.  As an Intern,I can get to wear SCRUBS for 1st time.  We,Interns,were few in my Medical college. 1 Intern per unit. I am the youngest member by age and designation as part of that unit. You enter a unit in any department.... It's like a newlywed bride entering a big Indian household.  Each member is familiar with one another and they have a bonding for long time and they laugh at common jokes.....and the new member feels awkward,clueless and uncomfortable initially. In due course of time,the new member gets welcomed into the family and becomes a part of the big household. An Intern gets a very similar situation to face...in the 1st week of Unit posting.  Absolute clueless about everything around. Fortunately, I was in Pre NEET generation.  ...

  Trust and Cheat. When a person cheats another person..... It's not coz one who cheated was very smart and intelligent and the other person who got cheated,dumb. It's because another person trusted the cheater a lot...to allow to be cheated. A person who trusts gets cheated often A person who always cheats never trusts anyone. Trust and Cheat never ever get along well. A person who gets cheated...forgets the incident but.....forgets to Trust anyone. Every one has been cheated many times in their lifetime. The reason being...Humans Trust easily....unlike animals. Animals take time to trust others. They always are guarded. Humans are gullible as they are very emotional. An emotional person trusts easily. Then.....is TRUST a sign of weakness? No. The whole world runs on Trust. A child trusts the Parent. Parents Trust the Child. Friendships are made on Trust. Relationships survive the test of time only if there is Trust. A Doctor can heal a patient only if there...

 MBBS, exams,results..... MBBS is a very lengthy course.4 and half years Followed by 1 year of compulsory Internship. The first year has only 3 subjects Anatomy, Physiology and Biochemistry.  Dhurandhar.Part 1. They are a medical student 's first experience and exposure to human body and understanding the mechanisms inside. The 1st internal exam....is an eye opener as to how vast,deep and difficult the course and subjects are. for every medical student. Throughout their lives,these students have been toppers and always seen their scores 💯....Perfect or near Perfect.  I was shocked to see " Single Digit" score out of 100....in the 1st interval exam taken in the 3rd month of our joining the course by the Anatomy department.  Luckily, I hadn't gone out on a duck. Remorse,Ashamed,Angry....I had written so much....Yet..... I searched other's scores..... Heaved a sigh! All were single digit except one girl..... The result of this internal exam reached home. A very inte...

 In every Father....there is a Hitler!!!! I heard a male cousin remark.... when his wife commented that he was strict and reserved with their son. I wasn't married that time. Most Fathers I had seen were reserved,didn't interact much with their kids and were busy as sole financial provider of the Family. A mother 's Love and Sacrifice for the kid and Family is more emotive. Mother spends more time with kid at home. Her love is seen openly while she nurtures,cares,cooks favorite dish,wipes tears by end of saree pallu,.....multiple acts of love. Mother  is more vocal about her feelings to the child. Mother is the Extrovert amongst the Parents. Father remains " The Hitler ".  Strict,authoritative,disciplinarian.  Few words....mostly as reprimand. Most Fathers are less emotive about their feelings.  But......a Father loves and cares about the child equally....as much as the Mother. It's only when the child grows into a mature Adult does he understand the love of t...