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Am I Good Enough

  Am I " Good Enough"? Yesterday, I watched Kangana Ranaut starring movie based on Tamil Nadu Ex CM ,AIADMK Chief,Jayalalitha. What impressed me more? Madam Jayalalitha, her persona,Grit,Determination, Her Life....Raised by a single mother who worked small parts in cinema to give her daughter expensive Convent Education and then bring that girl at a very young age into film industry and make her act with very senior Superstars in Romantic movies( a naive 18/19 yr made to romance Superstars Shivaji Ganesan and the legend MGR who were very much her father's age)..... then following footsteps of her Mentor MGR ,entering politics to help her Mentor....being humiliated at every point of time......finally becoming a cult" Thalaivi". Same is the career graph of Actress Kangana Ranaut. Being humiliated for  her accent and grassroot Background.....yet this fierce talented girl fought all and against everyone questioning and doubting her.....Today,a well known actress...

Power of Inner Strength

  Inner Strength Dr Tripti Milind Galgali Anaesthesiologist, Hubli. A 75yr lady was referred for pain and Palliative care to me. A sudden weakness episode got her investigated. She was diagnosed terminal stage of Cancer due to metastasis every where. " You have few months to live". Hearing this,a physically active lady yesterday, suddenly got bedridden. An energetic lady yesterday needed help for basic needs. When she saw me" Doctor, can you make me just like I was yesterday in few months?" I asked" Why ? Where do you want to go?" She: " I want to attend my grandson 's Convocation. " I promised her pain relief only if she got up from bed. The inner strength to make it to her grandson's Convocation got the lady not only up sitting but in 2- 3 months,she made Kheer herself in the kitchen and brought for me. The lady survived for 1 yr. Yes,she did see her Grandson 's Convocation ceremony on screen. Inner Strength. It moti...

Shutting the outside Noise

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 Shutting self from outside noise.  This picture of Lakshya Sen after winning the Aus Open defeating his Japanese Opponent in Straight Sets. Struggling with severe Back spasm and a drought of winning.... When the world spoke brutally about his form and fitness.... Every practice and each match painful coz of his Back problem.  An early exit in his previous match...... Lakshya Sen ,proud of your win. You deserve it. You taught Every Youngster out there..... When things are not working out for u.... When you yourself start doubting your calibre and credibility...... Shut the noise....... Believe in yourself and work hard on ur strengths..... Patience  Perseverance..... Baazi ek din zaroor paltegi...... Taaliya zaroor bajengi..... The fingers pointing at u yesterday..... Will clap tomorrow.  If you fall.... Get up..... Brush off the dust.... And start running...

Dual Duel

  The Dual Duel of Mind and Heart. I have since childhood a firm mind ,focused and determined.Following the passion of my heart. And both my heart and my mind never conflicted with each other.....always one and same goal. Till my 1st pregnancy....I continued working upto end. Once my baby entered the world and the happiest and most wonderful phase of my life ,The Motherhood, began...... And... The Dual ... Duel.. Heart and Mind.... Conflict began. Maternity leave got over. I had to rejoin my workplace. The morning "Separation" ,my baby crying and refusing to leave especially while teething or unwell,made me a " Selfish/ Self centered" person in eyes of every one around ...but mostly me myself. My heart was asking me to leave Anaesthesia. My Mind advised me to control my emotions and focus on my goals for which I had worked very hard. Only few times,my Heart won the Dual Duel when my baby was very sick and needed my Attention as a Doctor. Then the real...

Insta Profile

  My Insta profile...... When I was young,the fingers were pointed out on my short plump and not fair profile. Those fingers did make me concious especially in my teens and more when in crowd or in occasions amongst people. My group of MBBS friends were planning on a Reunion after almost 25yrs. My anxiety over my profile overrode  my enthusiasm for meeting my dear batchmates after so many years. Yes. Insta Profile- how I look,my body,my face,my dressing.... External Appearance..... As young as 10yr old girls are anxious about Insta Profile. How world views them? How they appear to the outside world? Pre Social media, when girls came of marriageable age.....the looks mattered a lot in the " Matrimonial Market". Post Social Media,all ages...are anxious about their " Insta Profile". A teen with a changing body structure and hormonal imbalances giving them acne,plump body,dysmorphism.....are suffering  and struggling with mental issues like depression, eatin...

Self Belief and Self Worth

  Blog on SELF BELIEF. It was 1994. A lanky 18yr old from Defense background was asked by a gentleman to contest Miss India Beauty Pageant. She went to fill the registration form. She found that the very beautiful well known face in modeling Industry was contesting that year.Hence,many either hesitated or were opting out of the contest. But on the urging and motivation of her parents, the young girl decided to participate. She not only participated but won too. Self Belief . She believed in her potential and poise. Confidently She went ahead to represent India on the International platform of Miss Universe in Phillipines and won the crown for the first time for India. Many times,world and people around us doubt our credibility and expertise. At times,we may feel less equipped or lesser skilled for the job or project or maybe we maybe lesser qualified in terms of education or experience. Or.... We may be competing with someone much better ... Or.... We maybe preparing ...

Self motivation in Life

  Self motivation Blog. I am a trained Bharata Natyam dancer.Started dancing and performing too right since 5/ 6 yrs of age. Even with a very hectic MBBS and also during Postgraduation in Anaesthesia ,the continuous 72hrs duties- Day and Night ICU and OT - didn't deter me from my Dance classes and practices. But Marriage and Birthing ,nurturing, caring, home management and Strenuous Anaesthesia private practice got me very busy..... My passion for dance got forgotten for 2 decades. A chance video taken by my daughter as I was showing her hand gestures on a Kathak song performed by Madhuri Dixit" Dhai Shyam Rok Layi"..... I was asked to perform in Anaesthesia CME . Dancing after so many years..... With fractures and surgeries, ligament tears.... And weight gain..... Very Difficult. Not easy. But not IMPOSSIBLE. Dancing requires energy, foot movements and rhythm. The entire process was painful, strenuous and frustrating. Steps needed modification. I chose a f...