Ever Comparing Ever Competing
Ever Competing,Ever Comparing...... Dr Tripti Milind Galgali. Hubli. A 35yr Lady came to my Pain Clinic with severe Pain in Right Hand,Neck . I prescribed her certain Drugs and asked her to Follow up Every 15days. After 2 visits,her Pain zeroed down to main root of Pain .It was the muscles around her shoulder blade.They had become Hard and Swollen.( Chronic Inflammation). I prescribed her some specific medication for which she responded well. She again revisited with same complaints after 3 months.This time,her husband accompanied her.He looked at me" Doctor, you are beautiful and so intelligent. " Then he turned at his wife" You have been visiting her so many times, couldn't you learn anything from her......" and a rant of sentences demotivating and insulting her. I asked her husband to wait outside. Got counseling the demoralized lady. When she burst into tears and started expressing her feelings " My husband always compares me with other Ladies...