RQ- RESILIENCE QUOTIENT

 RESILIENCE QUOTIENT.


A baby bird was struggling to come out of the egg.The hard shell was very tough to crack.
Seeing the struggle of the small creature, a person broke the shell for the baby to come out easily  
Did the person help the baby bird indeed????
No.
The baby bird  was born too weak to sustain the hardships of life.Its wings couldn't develop strong enough for its flight .
Had the person allowed the baby to fight against the hardness of the egg shell,the wings would have become strong and the baby born would be RESILIENT.
Do we allow ourselves to become Resilient?

WHAT IS OUR RESILIENCE QUOTIENT?
I saw a movie yesterday. LAWS OF ATTRACTION.
Starring Pierce Brosnan and Julliane Moore.Both playing Divorce Attorneys who have never lost a case.
A dialogue by Pierce Brosnan
" Today,we have forgotten to fight out against and for anything in our life.Be it career,relationship or life.We are just not Resilient. We prefer to Quit or Backoff and run."

A young Doctor joined a Corporate hospital.Academically excellent throughout. A TOPPER.
The young Doctor just couldn't sustain the demanding Corporate practice. He failed to fight against the Conglomerate.
HE QUIT.

Till date,everyone had listened to him,nobody had ever questioned him.....Infact his every word was approved and appreciated. BEST STUDENT. IDEAL STUDENT.
But in actual life,things aren't upto our expectations nor are people around us nor circumstances favorable always.
One needs to be RESILIENT.
Face and Fight.
Patience and Tolerance.

Over protective and Closed environment initially appears safe and secure.
But in longer run ,a few discrepancies or some rejections in life,upset us.
Instead of Fighting it out.....

Quitting and Running away is easier option.

But RESILIENCE.....
>Facing the obstacles, difficulties,oppositions...
>Accepting the rejections and failures but taking them as a learning lesson...not as a punishment or debacle.
> Adapting and adjusting but not changing our goals or focus.
> Take a step back...or Pause...for a bit or a moment but  never stop ourselves from moving on.
Just hang on and wait for the rough weather to calm down and stabilize.

It is RESILIENCE used in Quit India movement which finally forced the British Empire to leave India and get us Independence.

RESILIENCE QUOTIENT 
Teach ourselves and our kids.
For Empowerment against all odds.
For sustainability and stability.

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