Acts of love without words

 Acts of Love without words.


" I Love You".
3 words.
Express love.

Today, Social Media,Insta reels, Gifs,Emojis.....so many platforms professing " Love ".

Love of Parent for child and vice versa.
Love for siblings to each other.
Love between 2 individuals.
As Friends or Lovers,or colleagues.

Love is demonstrated, expressed in various ways- words,gifts,songs,tattoos .....reels,videos, dance,.....
Every one is today openly displaying the emotions for Love.
But can Love be shown in any other way?
Subtle.
Silent.
Just acts and emotions hidden inside.
Yes.Absolutely.

A strict Father who hardly ever spoke words of love.
He working day and night for good education and comfortable life of children...Love shown to children.
Coming late at night and lightly caressing the head of the sleeping child....Act of Love.
Waiting for the child to come from school and coaching class in late afternoon. Serving hot food to the tired child.....All out of Love and concern for the child.( My old Ajji and Aai skipped their afternoon nap even after the day's hard work, waited till 4pm for me to reach home and served me hot lunch.)

Preparing hot meals for the family.Making child's favorite dish when he/ she is upset or nervous.

 Later,when child grows up and leaves home.....
A call" Beta,did you have your lunch?".....
A random call when you are in middle of your busy meeting " Beta,how are you?"
That moment it's irritating.
Most times, we see " Amma" " Appa" on the mobile screen....and we cut the call." Ah! Just a casual call.Will call later."
And our busy schedule, we forget calling back .
These random casual calls are forms of  " I Love You."
Voice of Concern...." Beta,take care".
" Where are you going?"
" When will you be back home?"
May sound interfering or controlling.
But these are ways to say" I love you. I care for you."

Dear Young people,
I love you can be expressed in various ways without actually saying or showing them.
Concern and Care are 2 most important ways of a Parent showing Love to the child.
Actions speak better than words or Insta reels on social media.
Learn to respect these acts of
" I love You"

DR TRIPTI MILIND GALGALI
HUBLI.

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