I want.... I wish

 Are you that?


My mind wishes for many things.....

As a child,I wished that my parents give me whatever I asked for....chocolate, chips,dolls,frock,......
But was I ready to be that child who listened to everything parent said?

As a student, I wanted my teacher to chill....no homework, no difficult questions, no scolding, no lecturing.....
But was I ready to be that sincere,dedicated, hardworking student for my teacher?

As a teen ,I wanted freedom to do anything I want.
But was I ready to take responsibilities for my family and accountability for my actions?

As a worker,I wanted great salary,restricted responsibilities, fixed work hours,regular holidays.....
But was I ready to work loyally and earnestly?

As I entered Family Life, I expected respect and trust from my partner and family.
But was I ready to return same equally?

We pray to God for so many things in life....
But are we ready to be the human being God wants us to be?

As an individual, we all expect many things....
Many things we lack....
Many things we don't have....

Always.

Next time, I ask.....for anything.....

I must ask myself.....

Am I going to return and give back same?????

- Dr Tripti Milind Galgali.
Hubli.

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