What eyes see

 What eyes see.....

As new parents, everyone wants the child to learn many things.
Excited parents bring many toys and crafts to stimulate the child's brain right since birth.
As the child grows, Apps are purchased, Gadgets and Technology brought into homes which will enable the young brain to grasp many things.
Every parent desires the protege to have and enjoy best of everything.
They aspire their little one to be the best when he/ she grows up.
Best schools,best coaching centres,.....
Best gifts.....and comfortable luxurious life and lifestyle.
In all this methods and means of Parenting,.....

Adults in the house remain oblivious to the Fact.....
The little eyes.....
See a lot since childhood....
Observe many things since childhood...
And .....
Imbibe a lot into them....just like a sponge absorbs all the water around it.

Yes....these eyes see all and hear all.....silently.

Values are not taught.

Rest all can be taught,bought and learnt ....especially today's digital media.....everything is available and accessible....acquired easily.

Values in Life is imbibed by the child through whatever the young eyes see and hear around them since birth.

If the home is filled with respect to each other ...
Respect between each other....amongst each other....
The child grows up to Respect self and others too.

The tone of voice...the Language spoken to one another.....whatever the small ears hear around them......
In School,no matter which language, etiquette, Mannerism are taught and learnt  .....
The child when Adult .....manifests the same attitude as a person.

Personality and Attitude is slowly developed in the child by what the eyes are shown at home since childhood.....and atmosphere in the home .

Education begins at home.
" Sanskaar" is set from home.
Gandhiji had said" The way you expect the other person to behave....you must first be that person. "

Let's be that change in ourselves as a Parent and Adult.....so our little eyes see and small ears hear....right.

- Dr Tripti Milind Galgali 
Hubli.