A Father 's Love

 In every Father....there is a Hitler!!!!

I heard a male cousin remark.... when his wife commented that he was strict and reserved with their son.

I wasn't married that time.

Most Fathers I had seen were reserved,didn't interact much with their kids and were busy as sole financial provider of the Family.

A mother 's Love and Sacrifice for the kid and Family is more emotive.

Mother spends more time with kid at home.

Her love is seen openly while she nurtures,cares,cooks favorite dish,wipes tears by end of saree pallu,.....multiple acts of love.

Mother  is more vocal about her feelings to the child.

Mother is the Extrovert amongst the Parents.

Father remains " The Hitler ". 

Strict,authoritative,disciplinarian. 

Few words....mostly as reprimand.

Most Fathers are less emotive about their feelings. 

But......a Father loves and cares about the child equally....as much as the Mother.

It's only when the child grows into a mature Adult does he understand the love of the Father.....more so when the Child becomes a Parent. 

When the Father works day and night to provide best for the child....without a leave ....even when sick or tired.....

Sacrifices many personal Aspirations and Dreams ....and does that job relentlessly to bring Financial stability in the Family.....

When Father leaves early for work before the child awakes..and returns  home at night after the child sleeps.....the interaction between him and child becomes less....for the child to understand the Father.....

The hand caressing the sleeping child out of love and affection goes unnoticed. 

By the time,the child understands the underlying feelings and emotions of Father.....his Father becomes too old .....

And unfortunately some realise it when it's too late.

Just like we celebrate love of our Mother and her sacrifices for us......

Let's show gratitude 🙏🏼🙇🏻🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♂️to " The Hitler ".

Our Love,Respect and Gratitude for our Parents need not be just that one day....Mothers Day or Fathers Day.....where we send emojis,messages on Social media....or book table in hotel or appointments in salon for our Parent.....shower them gifts,flowers...on that day.....

While the other 364 days....we hardly communicate nor interact.....cut the line....not respond to messages.....ignore their existence. 

Let 365 days be moment we give some time for our parents. 

Dedicated to all Fathers in the group.

Dedicated to my Grandfather,Father and Father in Law.

Dedicated to my brother....

Most importantly  ..my husband....who is " A  Hitler "..... but great loving Father to my children.