Trust and Cheat

 Trust and Cheat.


When a person cheats another person.....

It's not coz one who cheated was very smart and intelligent and the other person who got cheated,dumb.

It's because another person trusted the cheater a lot...to allow to be cheated.

A person who trusts gets cheated often
A person who always cheats never trusts anyone.

Trust and Cheat never ever get along well.

A person who gets cheated...forgets the incident but.....forgets to Trust anyone.

Every one has been cheated many times in their lifetime.
The reason being...Humans Trust easily....unlike animals.
Animals take time to trust others. They always are guarded.

Humans are gullible as they are very emotional.

An emotional person trusts easily.

Then.....is TRUST a sign of weakness?
No.
The whole world runs on Trust.
A child trusts the Parent.
Parents Trust the Child.

Friendships are made on Trust.

Relationships survive the test of time only if there is Trust.

A Doctor can heal a patient only if there is Trust between the 2.

Deals are signed only on basis of Trust between 2 parties.

But.....if Trust gets broken.....
If one of the 2 cheats.....
Existence of relationships.....between 2 people.....could be anything.....gets affected.....
Betrayal brings cracks .....
Cracks break everything...to collapse.

TRUST ...

It is value....which can't be taught....
Trust needs to be inculcated by practicing in life " Always".

There is zero excuse for Cheating.
Once a cheater....forever a cheater...because cheating is an addiction.
Cheating in exams,workplace,relationship....is not smartness nor intelligence.
Cheating is abusing the Trust of another person .

You can Cheat once successfully....
You can Cheat many people .....
You can Cheat same person many times......
But.....You will get caught one day....as you can never Cheat successfully always.

People who Trust easily are kind and sensitive.
Betrayal does hurt badly.

But remember not all are cheaters.

Be careful next time.....But don't stop Trusting.....

You lose Trust....you stop loving.

So Trust....and be Trustworthy.

- Dr Tripti Milind Galgali
Hubli.

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