When you are not there...

 When you are not there........

I watched 2 movies,last week.

2 different genres.

One Marathi" Pimpal" means Peepal tree".

One Kannada" Love Mocktail-1"

Both male leads had a love marriage. And....

Both had the Male leads lose their wife....

The movies had beautiful dialogues which struck the chord.

Both movies had the Male lead build a house,...

Run family responsibilities...

The financial responsibility made the Male lead busy in office till late night...keeping their wives ever waiting for them.....

  " I am lonely....waiting for you....

It's raining outside....

The trees are getting wet....

I put my cheek on to the glass of the windowpane.....waiting for you alone.

The raindrops falling on the glass....

My cheeks have become cold ....stuck to the glass for hours...waiting for you....

But you never came."

" What is the use of such a big house and so much richness.....

When you are never there with me to enjoy .....

Love is enjoying moments of life together.....

Let not life keep you away from me."

All of us aspire for good careers,better life and luxuries.

Our Ambitions and Aspirations force us to leave home ,hometown and dear ones behind.

We leave the place and neighborhood behind to migrate to another bigger city and a better surroundings....

We leave our parents at an age where they need us most.

We build houses,buy cars,provide luxuries to our family.....leaving them alone while we are working all our life outside .

We want to provide best for our children. Best education for their bright careers.Hence ,we send them away .....little realizing how lonely they may be away from us......

Only when they leave.....

.... when we lose them  ...or..... when we are left alone.......do we realise the value .

When we lose our parents, their loneliness eagerly ever waiting for us.....starts haunting us....while reading the letters sent to us....which never got opened. 

Only when spouse leaves forever.....the loneliness waiting ever for us whole day to spend some time.....reaches us......when we become lonely .

The children for whom we worked so much....when they leave us.....for better life.....only then do we understand that loneliness. 

Time teaches us it's value when it gets lost......

Both movies teach importance of Time over Money.

Our loved ones need our Time ...more than Money.

Money is needed to buy many things in life.

But it can never compensate Time.

We realise value of loved ones,our neighborhood, surroundings, home....country....

Only after we build big careers,bigger homes,better lives and buy all luxuries and yet search for happiness....

The warmth which we got with parents, spouse, kids,friends, relations,neighborhood and surroundings we grew up with.

But Time has passed....and all left behind.....forever.

- Dr Tripti Milind Galgali. 

Hubli.

P.S Pre Technology days had letters,words and emotions. 

All got lost ....no words....only emoticons to convey our feelings.