Ek Duje ke Vaaste

 Ek Duje Ke Vaaste.


A favorite song from YRF DiL Toh Pagal Hai.

Even more favorite dialogue of the film....
Someone,Somewhere is  out there specially for you.One day you will surely meet each other.
God decides as He knows who it is for you.
It's Destiny which brings u both together.

Absolutely true.

Marriages and Union between 2 people are made in Heaven.
It's pre-decided by God.

I believe in this.

It is so surreal.
One day,you meet " That Person",a complete stranger.You have never seen this person before.You don't know anything about this person's past,childhood.
Yet,once you meet this stranger....a brief interaction.....you simply connect with each other.
You feel the urge to meet this stranger repeatedly to know more about this stranger.
You want to understand the person well.
And you get the strong instinct within.....I want to be with this person only to spend my entire life together......till end......
Have children......start family.
Grow old .......

Once ,we become teens,hormones make us get attracted to the " Other Person ".
We have crushes,friendships.....
We fall in love.....
We face heartbreaks.....
Some relationships fall out.....for many reasons.....
Some are one sided....as no reciprocation from the other end......
But......
One Fine Day.....
That Person, who is destined to be with you forever.....just comes out of nowhere.....
Sparks this time are equal and strong both ends....

Some are at first sight.....
While some develop gradually after multiple interactions.....many conversations.....many cups of coffees.....hours of chats( in my time....hours on the telephone)......

Finally.....
This time.....
Heart and Mind are both on same wavelength.....same page.....no conflict.....no variable or diverse opinions....no doubt......

Yes.Absolutely Sure.....
I am in Love ❤️
I want to be with this person forever......
I have complete Trust in him.

Ek Duje Ke Vaaste.....
Pyaar bahut baar hota hai....
Lekin Jeevan Saathi sirf ek hi Banta Hai.

We fall in love multiple times.....
May have relationship with some one ....

But our Life Partner....Our Soul Mate....with whom we decide to spend our entire life....only once.

To my Life Partner....
My Husband......My soul Mate.....
Whom I met as a stranger first time, 25 yrs ago.....
Instantly struck a chord...a connection......a feeling.....
I want to be with this person forever......
Got married within few months.....after long conversations for hours on the phone.....even sitting next to mortuary of my medical college.....

Spending 25yrs together....
2 kids.....
Facing joys and tough times together....
Supporting each other.....
Trusting one another.
And wanting to see many more milestones together....for many more years......

Dil abhi bhi Pagal Hai......

Wishing all couples.....a very Happy Valentine 's Day....
Keep falling in love every day....with the same person....your soul mate....your  Life Partner....
Jodiyan Uparwala Hi Banata Hai.....
Ek Duje Ke Vaaste.

- Dr Tripti Milind Galgali
Hubli.

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