Trends of Love

 Trends of Love.


Youth always gets influenced by Cinema.
With Generations, Cinema has evolved.
Love depicted change.
Youth too changed with respect to Love.

60s Love- Heartbroken and Jilted.
Cinema showed a girl and a boy fall in love.Societal barrier between rich and poor,Caste,Religion forced them to separate .
They had to marry someone else.
Ever pining for each other 's Love.
Jab DiL Hi Toot Gaya ..
Ab Jeeke Kya Karenge

Hum Intezaar Karenge...
Khuda Karein Ke Qayamat Ho...
Aur Tu Aaye..

80s Rebellious Love.
The Disco generation got the girl and boy fall in love
The Societal barriers of Rich / Poor,Caste,Religion,Power, Position did separate them
The Rebellious lovers fought against the whole Society.
They professed undying love openly.
Eloped and got married....
But some even killed self for Love.....

Hum Dono...Do Premi ....Duniya Chod Chale...
Duniya ki ,Hum ,Saari Rusmein Tod Chale.

Hum Tum Dono  Jab mil jaayenge...
Ek Naya Itihaas Banayenge....
Aur agar Na mil paaye toh...
Phir bhi Naya Itihaas banayenge...

90s Naughty Infidelity.
This generation was entering Technology. Life was fast paced.Couples had very less time at home....Work forced the Man to spend long hours at office outside.
The woman was left alone all be herself.
Cinema had many stories about naughty
husband flirting with another woman.A woman seducing a man....
Pyar mein kabhi Kabhi Dhoka ho jaata hain.....

Raat akeli hain....
Bujh gaye diye....


2000s Moving On....
This generation was learning to move on ....facing rejections and dejections.
Life was full of competition and failures.
Cinema showed youth learning to accept rejections and move on after heartbreaks.One one relationship failed,the boy and also girl again found new love.

Subah Savere Maine yeh sab kar Liya...
Maine Sayyanji se subah Break up kar Liya....
Phone se number delete kar diya...
Parlor jaake shampoo kiya....
Phir subah savere Makeup kar Liya...
Sab friends ko WhatsApp kar Liya....
Party jamke kar Liya......

Tere liye hi toh signal Tod tadke...
Maine apni Dilliwali Girlfriend chodchadke....
Ab toh asshique bana Tera ..pakka.

2026.....
THE GEN Z has attachment and commitment issues.
Cinema too shows both girls and boys just move on with each other after casual relationship with no attachment and zero commitment.

Battameez dil  ...
Mane na....
Yeh jo haal hai...
Jaane na ...

Ude DiL Befikre...
Angaaron mein nikhre...
Raat bhar ghumenge...
Aasman chumenge....

Cinema influences Youth.
Youth Trends influence Cinema.

Stories and Song Lyrics depict attitude of Society. The culture of that generation is Cinema of that generation.

- Dr Tripti Milind Galgali.
Hubli.

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